Discovered I still can’t bear my body weight on my left shoulder (ie: push ups). I can be civil, even friendly with someone I didn’t think I could. I am now in a leadership position which requires me to make decisions that will affect the league. And I finally sucked it up, reached out, and made first contact to attempt (again) to build a bridge between he and I. And learned new rules. And will be shadowing a jam ref to better learn and understand my position. All good things.
**Edit** First contact will likely be the last. There was no response. None. It’s sad that it has to be like this.